Not knowing the circumstances, but I'd be wary of this.
I was in a similar situation with my first wife.
Luckily, I get on with my first wife, but I was always concerned that she would turn round and tell my kids that I 'made them homeless' or forced them to live in some 'shit-hole'. I'd heard too many stories of divorces that had started off amicable, turned nasty and now they could no longer see their kids - despite what the courts said. I wasn't willing to risk it.
Conversely, if she rented somewhere nice, I'd end up having to pay even more anyway.
On top of that, solicitors know how to rack bills up in a way that would make most professions blush.
I wish I had a better solution - it sounds like a crap situation and grossly unfair.
I was in a similar situation with my first wife.
Luckily, I get on with my first wife, but I was always concerned that she would turn round and tell my kids that I 'made them homeless' or forced them to live in some 'shit-hole'. I'd heard too many stories of divorces that had started off amicable, turned nasty and now they could no longer see their kids - despite what the courts said. I wasn't willing to risk it.
Conversely, if she rented somewhere nice, I'd end up having to pay even more anyway.
On top of that, solicitors know how to rack bills up in a way that would make most professions blush.
I wish I had a better solution - it sounds like a crap situation and grossly unfair.